Candle Kites and Remembrance

A floating candle can be a powerful symbol of healing and remembrance. This can be particularly true when you fly a kite in honor of a loved one who passed away. Watching the doves flap up into the sky can feel like releasing your grief directly to your deceased loved one in heaven. It’s a gorgeous tradition that can be added to any memorial service, and it’s an excellent way to bring the entire family together as you craft your kite, prepare lantern fuel, and go out to launch your creation.

The Ulster County Legislature has determined that “any device designed to float in the air that is constructed of oiled rice paper, fire retardant paper, or fabric pulled over a frame with a small candle fuel cell or similar heat source inside the device to heat the air and lower its density causing it to rise into the air” is illegal to be used, released, or dispatched into the air in the County. This includes devices also known as a Kongming lantern, sky lantern, Chinese lantern, wish lantern, or fire balloon.

If you’re looking for a safe and peaceful way to practice trataka, try using a flameless candle instead of a real wax candle. You can use these candles to create a serene and relaxing environment in your home, or they are an excellent addition to any outdoor gathering. Unlike traditional wax candles, they are unaffected by wind, making them ideal for creating magical outdoor settings and lighting up camping trips or romantic evenings by the fire.